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Fragments from Floyd

Gandy Journal: Bonding

She has entered that gangly awkward adolescent age

The smallest gestures of affection and connection are welcomed when they come, at last, after suffering pain repeatedly at another’s expense. You know who I’m talking about. Even though they may be small victories, these moments let us know that boundaries have been crossed for the first time. We take hope that trust will build. An unspoken language promises there will be understanding shared, a becoming possible between us.

We have ceded the high ground to Gandy, covering the old family chair yesterday with a quilt that once was on one of the kid’s beds. This morning, noticing suddenly that the room was quiet, I turned around to find her asleep in the chair.

I took the opportunity to slip quietly over to the love seat and sneak in a short nap myself during this brief off-duty interlude, sliding contentedly into side-lying fetal position, and pulling the blanket down across my legs.

Gandy immediately sat up in the chair, just a few feet away, and propped her front paws on the arm, yipping in agitated tones in my direction. I feined sleep, but it was clear she was headed my way. She was frustrated. She forgets how to get down. It looks steeper going down than it does going up. But she mustered the courage.

In the next instant, she was “spooning” in the crook of my midsection. And after some initial fidgeting and reluctance to settle in, she calmed down. And for the first time, we napped in unison, breathing together, sharing each other’s warmth and rhythm, for a few short minutes until the phone rang.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5 thoughts on “Gandy Journal: Bonding”

  1. That’s some good bonding time, Fred. I’ve taken quite a few naps with Dolly on the couch. And that ain’t easy to do with a 75 pound Walker Hound.

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