Relationship Descriptor: His internal dialogue (and monologue) and hers are imagined as tag clouds, with individual words and phrases sized according the frequency that they appear in each (if not both) of their personal narratives of Life, the Universe and Everything. The largest words are those interests or concerns that are most often and importantly at focus behind the veil, if not in the conversations or attempts at consensus between these two characters.
What would it mean if the most prominent and therefore the largest words of his Tagcloud of Consciousness and Personhood are very very tiny on hers. Or missing entirely? This is really about “sets” of interest and importance. What if there is almost NO overlap between these importance-circles?
See dashed-line tagcloud as thought balloons, his and hers.
Related item concerning inter-gender communication: Gary Larsen cartoon, what we say to our pets versus what our pets hear.
“Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah TREAT!”
Husbands or wives: ever get the feeling…
ALSO SEE: Fred’s “Wordle” tag cloud for What We Hold In Our Hands: a Slow Road Reader